Monday, March 23, 2009

Alive and Kicking...I Think!

Yes...I am still alive, barely, but still alive and kicking. This month has been crazy and I haven't had a moment to blog...or when I do, I am tired and choose bonding with my couch and DVR over blogging. I've also had so much running around in my head that I don't seem to be focused enough to blog. We've also been socially active which doesn't happen too often as much as it did this month.

We celebrated D's birthday to begin the month. Again, I took us to Seau's Legends Party. It is so much fun...a party complete for $55 per person which included food from a variety of San Diego restaurants, free gaming, dancing and other entertainment. It is attended by a variety of local and national sports celebrities. Last year, we had the fortune to meet Dermontti Dawson who played with the Pittsburgh Steelers. He is so nice and spent lots of time talking to us and hanging out. This year, we ran into him again and spent a long time with him at the blackjack table. We had quite the laugh over the girls trying to hit on him (he's married)and took pictures with us.

Before
Before the craziness

After
After the craziness

The next night was actually D's birthday. We took him to dinner at the family favorite (Ruth's Chris) and had a great night. I think D actually had a good time and was touched by the family.

The next weekend was our annual All Greek reunion. Once again, I was designated driver for the evening. I am still amazed after all these years (5 to be exact) that women can get together and have a drink and be civil. Whereas, the men (fraternity boys) all act like they're back in college. It's funny to watch...especially D taking shots and being hungover the next morning! I ran into the one (former) friend that pushed me to make my resolution of losing those friends who do nothing, but bring me down. She said hello and gave me a hug and said nothing else to me the rest of the evening. I think I got the hello and hug just because I was with a group of people she wanted to say hello to. It felt fine...I guess I've made a huge step regarding that resolution!

The jay oh bee is good and I am still cautiously optimistic about the situation. New boss is so different and keeps pulling me into things that I was never involved with before. I feel good about things...I have an interview on Wednesday for her former position. I'm feeling like I'm in a potentially win-win situation...if I stay, it's good, but if I get this promotion, it's also good. She has been encouraging and shared that she doesn't want me to leave, but understands that I need to do what is best for my career. The other upside about the promotion is that it would move me closer to realizing some of my dreams.

I'm really trying to take things one step at a time rather than looking at big pictures. When I do, I can feel it throw me into a small tizzy! It's all a process...have a great day!

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

I'm Alive...Just Lagging

I am seriously lagging in tbe blog post area...in fact, once I upload photos, I am planning on doing a "While the Cat's Away" post. For some reason, I can't seem to get myself straight right now. I'm busy, but not so much that I can't sit down for a few minutes and blog. For the most part, things are good and progressing...

Jay Oh Bee: Old boss' last day was Thursday. It was an odd day around here with a weird mood. New boss started on Monday. Since old boss left, it's been oddly friendly around these parts. I'm cautiously optimistic and happy, but still worried that I am being lulled into a false sense of security and that my body will end up in a dumpster. New boss brings a whole different energy and vibe to the office. She is positive and funny...we met this morning and had a great talk about things. She's asked me to attend a regional meeting with her next week and is getting me involved with things that I should be. I think that we will make a good team. I'm also working on the application for her old position just to see if I can make the next step in my career. We'll see what happens...

Life: Things are just busy in our lives...D was gone for a long weekend with the boys and it threw us out of whack. The next few weeks are going to be busy with events (D's birthday, All Greek reunion and so much more) that I almost feel like I need to take a day off and spend it at home to clean and organize.

Well...I hope life is good for everyone! Take care!